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i think this pretty much sums up how most toma fans are feeling right now??? lol..... sigh.......
http://hangoverdecade.tumblr.com/post/8
this one was posted around the time of toma's dating rumor with yuriko. lol. now we can use it to remind ourselves to calm down about this rumor... even if he really has a girlfriend, it's ok!! we should be happy for toma!!
honestly... i am upset about this rumor that they've been dating 6 months, and i felt like NO WAY THIS IS TRUE at first. but then i thought about it some more and looked up some stuff and now i feel like it might be true and if it is, i'm ok with it. toma could do worse. but...yeah, she's not that cute and she looks like a young boy sometimes, but it's ok. as long as he's happy, i'm happy for him. he's almost 31. he should be able to go out on dates instead of having secret apartment dates!!
THE FOLLOWING STUFF THAT I WROTE IS JUST FYI OR FOR MY OWN ENTERTAINMENT OR ME HAVING FUN COMING UP WITH CRAZY THEORIES, PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL. (i spent way too much time on this. hahahaha...) (btw, feel free to re-post some of it at tumblr or link to it. just GIVE ME CREDIT, please!!! xD thanks!!)
PROOF #1
this is and excerpt from this interview 4 years ago, btw:
http://tomatoloves.livejournal.com/10700.html
http://tomatoloves.livejournal.com/10700.html
TOMA ON 5LDK 111215 (december 15, 2011)
HOLY CRAP. HIS IDEAL GIRL THAT HE JUST DESCRIBED MATCHES HER DESCRIPTION PERFECTLY. O___O 1) she's got a rucksack/backpack on a lot in her instagram pics. 2) she's cheerful. 3) likes music (sings/plays guitar). 4) she wears rock tees (a lot of tees and boyish clothes).
this also explains why toma might have had a crush on Kawakita Nao. btw, toma has said he often has crushes on older women. she's the married woman in the band that he likes that he was rumored to go on a night date with in 2014. yes, i know they said other ppl were supposed to be there and they're just friends. but i still feel like toma probably likes her...
basically, toma wants a cool, tomBOY-ish girl to hang out with when he goes to concerts and stuff... xD kyary is obviously not his type, she's too girly.
PROOF #2
(THIS IS A SCREENSHOT FROM MY TOMA BLOG IN 2010. LOL. in this interview, TOMA SAYS HE HAS A FETISH...HE LIKES GIRLS WITH SHORT HAIR!!!! and he admitted that he has been in love (dated?) recently. that was back in 2010, so who knows who he was with then (aragaki yui, i hope???????), though.
if you want to watch the subbed interview, hopefully the link still works... go here to DL:
#94 Gout Temp Nouveau 100127)
WEIRD COINCIDENCES OR STUFF THEY HAVE IN COMMON.......
1) BOTH PLAYED PSYCHO KILLERS
2) TOMA'S BIRTHDAY IS OCTOBER 7. HERS IS OCTOBER 14. whatttttt!!! that's kinda cool, actually. lol.
3) they were both in a drama where the girl pretends to be a guy. his was hana kimi, of course. hers was Ouran High School Host Club. but her role was just one of the girl students. THOUGH SHE COULD TOTALLY BE THE MAIN CHARACTER CUZ SHE LOOKS LIKE A BOY!!!!!!!!!!
4) i guess they both love music and they kinda wear the same kinda clothes sometimes. lol.
SEINO NANA LOOKS LIKE A BOY!!!!!!!!!!!
--she dresses like a guy so much. just check out her instagram and you'll see. https://instagram.com/seinonana/. it's almost like she wants to be a guy. seriously. she wears guy clothes a lot or very baggy clothes. she has a black belt in karate (read it somewhere. and she knows kendo, too?), she's in a bunch of action movies where she has to fight. she's very...manly.
SOMETIMES SHE LOOKS LIKE A VERY YOUNG BOY, WHICH KINDA MAKES IT WEIRD THAT TOMA LIKES SOMEONE THAT LOOKS LIKE A TEENAGE BOY....... HMM........ BUT I DON'T WANNA GET INTO THIS.... LOL....
--she plays the guitar, sings pretty well. she covers a lot of english songs. lol... her english pronunciation is not that bad... SHE DOES SEEM LIKE A COOL KINDA...PLAYFUL GIRL THAT TOMA WOULD LIKE AND SHE CAN BE PRETTY CUTE AND MATURE LOOKING, TOO....
SO....... YEAH. IF THEY REALLY ARE A COUPLE, I THINK I CAN ACCEPT IT. AT LEAST SHE SEEMS LIKE AN INTERESTING, DIFFERENT KINDA GIRL THAN THE TYPICAL GIRLY GIRL JAPANESE GIRL, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. of course, i'm not saying all j girls are like that, but it does seem like girls there are expected to be super girly and cutesy, and a lot maybe do that just to fit in, even if they aren't really like that... (wow, you can learn a lot from a person from lurking on their instagram. kinda of.. haha....) but since most japanese girls are too girly, i could see why toma would be attracted to tomboys like her, who are rare....
CRAZY THEORY #1: TOMA IS BI OR GAY.......
BUT STILL.... i find it a suspicious.....
that toma likes tomboys. i've always thought he was gay or bi, because.... i mean.... TOMA & YAMASHITA (tomapi 4ever!!!). TOMA & SHUN. TOMA + WHATEVER GUY YOU SHIP HIM WITH. of course if he was, he would never come out. it would ruin his career. so wouldn't the next best thing be to date a manly girl?? lol.... i mean, it makes sense!!
IS IT 2007 AGAIN?????
TOMA WAS BLONDE A WHILE AGO AND NOW HE LIKES A GIRL THAT LOOKS LIKE A BOY.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR????? LOL.
ALL THAT IS MISSING IS THE "HOMO JANAIIIIII"
wow....toma's character, Nakatsu, loved a girl pretending 2 be a boy. real life toma ends up falling for a girl that's also kinda pretending to be a boy!!!!!!!!!!!
btw, all the homophobia in hana kimi was funny but also sad at the same time. sigh...... if toma was really gay/bi and has to hide it all his life, that would be really sad. so i actually hope he's straight.
CRAZY THEORY #2: toma and maki secretly dated for years but broke up and now she's marrying someone else and he's dating nana, both doing it to get over each other...
in case you didnt know, MAKI SUDDENLY GOT MARRIED AND ANNOUNCED IT JUST ON AUG. 22, 4 days ago!!!!!!!!!
http://www.tokyohive.com/article/2015/08/horikita-maki-yamamoto-koji-get-married
http://unleashthegeeks.blogspot.com/2015/08/yamamoto-koji-reveals-how-he-got.html
and just yesterday, i read this:
(i know this is just 2 ppl who kinda look like them cosplaying. lol...)
toma and maki did have dating rumors back then, mostly just cuz ppl always wanna think onscreen couples are real life couples and that kissing pic i posted above. they did wear matching bands during the live special on the day the last episode was aired, but i'm not sure that means much. lol.
i feel like they might have possibly dated back then and broke up.
NOW THIS IS MY CRAZY THEORY. LOL. maybe in recent years they dated again. but she broke up with toma sometime during the spring because he doesn't want to get married, because he wants to focus on his career. and she impulsively accepted the other guy's marriage proposal to spite toma!! toma is heartbroken so he dates nana cuz she is boyish like maki was when he first met her and fell in love with her, when they filmed hana kimi together!!! but of course for this theory, it can't be true they've been dating six months, it would be only since around spring, after tomaki broke up. lol...........
THIS KINDA MAKES SENSE CUZ TOMA USED TO SAY HE WANTS TO BE MARRIED (AND HAVE KIDS TOO, LATER) BY THE TIME HE'S 30, BUT HE CHANGED HIS MIND IN RECENT YEARS.
but of course, his career is always the most important!!!!!!!!!! i do kinda remember him saying he had no time to date back in 2009 cuz he can't focus on his career and dating at the same time... but that was when he was super busy...
When a girl you love said : “You HAVE TO choose. Work or me ?”
(credit: http://hangoverdecade.tumblr.com/post/12596057668. this was an interview from 2008!!)
"So what are your private goals in turning 30 years old?
"Though I have to think deeper with regards to marriage, I think I will let nature takes its course. Career is my priority now. But I would like to get married someday ~ I think it is a huge progress for me if I can say this. (laugh)
I think I am definitely not the type who survive on love solely. I would want to be a good actor before I become a good husband and father. Therefore placing love as the top priority is basically not possible, I think...I cannot make it right? (laugh)"
He can frankly talk about his desire in career and his goals, It seems that the importance of the path he has made, and the pressure he got from the responsibility these few years, have made him become stronger."
(credit: http://himawariyusuke.livejournal.com/21110.html. this was back when he was 27 so that was 2012, toma seems to say he doesn't want to get married when he's 30, probably. wants to focus on his career!!)
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Date: 2015-08-30 02:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2015-08-30 04:38 pm (UTC)i'm glad you feel that way. yeah...what really matters the most is that he is happy. we can't be so selfish and want him to stay single forever. lol.
i'm glad you like my post so much, but i'm not sure i have anything else to say about this subject. hahaha. but the next time there's any major, scandalous toma news, i'll probably write a long post about my thoughts on it. =P